Many women have been conditioned to follow other people’s lead, to deny their own truth, and to stay silent. 

When the compliant good girl has a grip on our voice, we lead a life of quiet desperation, not fully realizing our potential and purpose. We make choices based on what we think we can have, and we become apologetic for our desires, our expression, and our bigness.

And as a result, we silence and shrink ourselves.

But the truth is, you’re not here to comply – you’re here to create.

You are not here to placate or please people – you’re here to follow your happiness and self actualize in the way your soul is guiding you.

Not everyone will like that and not everyone will like you.
They may criticize you but they are really saying:

“How dare you be free when I am struggling to be free”.

So how do we become the most authentic version of who we came to be (not conditioned to be)?

This question lives at the center of the Femvolution Odyssey.

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Are you ready to embody the unapologetic and undeniable power of a fully expressed woman?

We work with women leaders to embrace and express their most authentic selves and their wild souls –– this includes transformational leaders, healers, creatives, entrepreneurs, authors, women in business, and women who are interested in making a difference.

The Femvolution Odyssey is designed to help you become the most courageously, outrageously self-expressed version of you:

  • Shatter the barriers around what you can do, be, say and offer the world. 
  • Uncover your true voice and clarify your most aligned offerings to give to the world at this time
  • Let bold self-expression become your new baseline –– people won’t be able to take their eyes off of you because of how you show up in the world
  • Step into your uncompromised expression of truth 
  • Uncover a body of work that has gravitas and meaning and which truly is your legacy. 
  • Take a stand for your truth in the world — the refinement of your message, product, and service so that it clicks, it lands in the world, it creates success for you, and it is deeply of service.
  • Tap into your wisdom, embodiment, and creativity in a new way so that you become the transmission of your message
  • Living into a new possibility for how you can express yourself in the world: full throttle, all the way, no cutting corners

Step into your unapologetic and undeniable power

Femvolution Programs

Reclaim

For women just beginning to discover their voice.

RISE

For women on the journey of sharing their voice with the world.

REVOLUTIONIZE

For women amplifying their business, brand and body of work.

Alia is extraordinary.

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Your Guide,
Femvolution Founder
Alia Metcalf

“In the process of facing down demands for compliance, I found my commitment, resilience, and courage to say no to who I was being told to be, and instead say yes to me—the real me, the true me, the creative me, the expressed me, the woman who was no longer hiding.”

—Alia

I had a “normal” upbringing in affluent Connecticut where I was a strong student and had a lot of potential in the practical and academic realms. But I was also mystical, intuitive, musical, and a deeply feminine girl who wanted to express herself fully.

My creative gifts were not respected and seen only as a hobby. As a result, I was intensely pressured by my family into a more traditional path. 

I was guided into a course of study at Brown University and a prestigious career that looked good on a resume working for companies like Saatchi & Saatchi, Visa, Delta Air Lines, and Oil of Olay, but I felt miserable, numb, and trapped – like I didn’t have any other options. 

I kept numbing difficult feelings that were coming up. I became deeply depressed and began engaging in self-sabotaging behaviors. I felt like I was spiralling out of control. 

Before long, I had developed an acute healing crisis that lasted for nearly a decade. All the healers I went to couldn’t figure out why I wasn’t healing with their treatments. Eventually, it caused me to take a close look at my life and ask why it was happening. 

What my healing crisis caused me to finally realize was that I had hidden everything that was true, creative, unique and ME. I had no choice but to start to re-discover what I loved, what moved me, what I desired, what I was good at, without trying to perform to someone else’s ideal of success. 

This led me to women’s work and a deep realization that I had been operating from a very masculine “do-go-reach-for-success” paradigm for a long time and my body was breaking down as a result.

Don’t get me wrong, I gathered quite a few accolades through this approach to life, but it was literally causing me harm.

My transformation began with a statement of possibility that I created in a workshop nearly 20 years ago. — I am the possibility of being courageously, outrageously self-expressed

I just wanted to free myself because for too long I had been caught behind the screen of other people’s projections on me.

I made a decision
to follow my joy,
no matter what.

And an amazing thing happened — my life totally transformed.

When I finally got the guts to leave my comfortable marketing executive job and pursue a more creative and self-created career path, my symptoms cleared up.

But the hard parts were still not over yet. My family thought I was crazy and they disapproved of my choices. I was so afraid of losing safety, belonging, and identity that I had from my family my whole life but I was at a threshold when I was being asked to choose between who I truly was and who they wanted me to be. 

So I made the choice. 

I lost my relationship with my father, because I chose myself instead and it was the most heartbreaking casualty of them all.

But I realized something — there was a self-respect I gained by choosing to express and live my own truth, and not allow anyone else to keep me from being who I am, that deepened and anchored my internal strength and then made everything else possible in my life. It made me braver and ultimately more successful.

In the process of facing down demands for compliance, I found my commitment, resilience, and courage to say no to who I was being told to be, and instead say yes to me—the real me, the true me, the creative me, the expressed me, the woman who was no longer hiding.

At some point each of us must cross a threshold where we walk away from our family or community and enter the sovereign realm of our independence, trust in ourselves, and the belief that we are going to be ok no matter what.

This is the place I aspire every woman operate from.

If you take this journey, here’s the magic you’ll experience on the other side:

From compromise to courage to brave creation –- you’ll realize the full expression of what lies within you

The invisible shackles of doubt and fear that once bound you seem to drop away, your clarity sharpens, your intuition expands, you become happy, like really happy – the kind of abiding happiness that follows you through every moment of every day even if you are tending to the most mundane of tasks.

You’ll become magnetic to people and experiences that elevate your life into a whole new dimension of awesome and that’s just for starters…expressing who you truly are then puts you on your path to your life’s purpose and to the trust in the ideas and visions that now come to you. 

The calling that had been urging you forward through the muck begins to manifest into reality almost magically in a way you can hardly believe and it’s so much more magnificent than you could have dared imagine. 

You will:

  • Stop dimming your depth, start taking up space, and stand in your agency. There’ll be no more doubting, just solid forward momentum in the direction of your dreams.
  • Lift your standards and live into the full potential of your life. No more compromising on experiencing the full spectrum of what you came for.
  • Return to your feminine intelligence –  trust the knowing inside that guides your life to the most magnificent outcomes.
  • Carry with you a treasure chest of wisdom and an understanding of the heart.
  • Experience a new level of intimacy, trust and fun with the people in your life. 

 

 

You become a dynamic potent force of woman!

You are majestic in your radiance, a living expression of strength and power.

It’s all so off-the-hook amazing that it makes you wonder what took you so long??

Well you’re here now and I’ve got some gems to offer you that could drop you into this nirvana quicker than two shakes of a rabbit’s tail.

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